What vaginal dryness feels like
Natural vaginal moisture helps keep the tissue supple, healthy, and protected. When that moisture decreases, symptoms can develop, including:
Dryness, irritation, or burning
Discomfort or pain during sex
Spotting or bleeding after intercourse
Sensitivity during everyday activities, such as sitting or exercising
Changes in sensation or comfort
These symptoms can range from mild to more disruptive — and they’re valid at any level.
Why vaginal dryness happens during menopause
Oestrogen plays a key role in keeping vaginal tissue elastic, well-lubricated, and resilient. During menopause, falling oestrogen levels can cause the tissue to become thinner and drier, making it more sensitive to friction and irritation.
These changes are common and biological — not something you’ve done wrong.
The "silent" problem
Vaginal dryness is still rarely talked about openly. Many women feel embarrassed to raise it with partners, friends, or even healthcare professionals — despite how much it can affect comfort, confidence, and relationships.
Pain or discomfort during sex can lead to withdrawal or anxiety around intimacy, especially when it’s happening quietly and without explanation. But this doesn’t have to be something you endure in silence. Vaginal dryness is a recognised and treatable part of menopause.
What helps with vaginal dryness
The good news is that vaginal dryness isn’t something you simply have to put up with. Many women find relief through a combination of everyday care and medical support.
Everyday support
Vaginal moisturisers to support ongoing comfort
Lubricants during sex to reduce friction and discomfort
Gentle hygiene, avoiding perfumed or harsh products
Taking time during intimacy, allowing natural arousal and lubrication
Medical options
For some women, local vaginal oestrogen prescribed by a doctor can be very effective. Applied directly to the vaginal tissue, it helps restore comfort while minimising effects on the rest of the body.
A healthcare professional can help you explore what’s appropriate for you.
When to see a doctor
If symptoms are severe, persistent, or affecting your quality of life — or if over-the-counter options aren’t helping — it’s important to speak to a healthcare professional. Support and advice can make a meaningful difference.
Next steps
If you’re exploring gentle, everyday support for vaginal dryness, you can browse our vaginal health range here.